Hello,
You can use below code to align mini-cart title and icon
.et_b_header-cart .et-mini-content-head .et-element-label {
color: #222222;
font-size: calc(var(--content-zoom) * var(--head-label-proportion));
font-family: Roboto;
}
.et_b_header-cart .et-mini-content-head .et_b-icon svg {
fill: #222222;
}
.et_b_header-cart .et-mini-content-head .et_b-icon {
width: auto;
font-size: 18px;
}
.et_b_header-cart .et-mini-content-head>a {
justify-content: start;
}
.et_b_header-cart .et-mini-content-head {
border-bottom: 1px solid #e1e1e1;
}
There is no option to move cross-sells below the buttons. You can only disable theme in the cart settings.
Regards