Hello
Would you like to have next result https://prnt.sc/xMvWLogJSgWT ?
If so then you may add next code to your child-theme/functions.php
or you may install any Code Snippets plugin and add the code to their php code areas.
Code:
add_filter('header_account_link', function($url) {
return get_dashboard_url();
});
Backend: https://prnt.sc/AsSFjFmRbeOG
If you would like to have another result, please, provide us more details with screenshots or example urls for logged In and unlogged In users.
Regards