Hello,
1. Please see screenshot http://prntscr.com/i0mq6l
2. The menu you may edit in Appearance > Menus. Read more http://xstore.helpscoutdocs.com/article/27-mega-menu
3. You need to uncheck this option http://prntscr.com/i0msbm in row settings and add padding top and bottom in row settings > Design Options.
4. Appearance > Widgets > After the products.
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